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Enjoy Keeping a Relationship

January 24, 2010 by  
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It’s best to wait for the one you want than settle for the one available.
Best to wait for the one you love than one who’s around.
Best to wait for the right one because life’s too short to be wasted on just someone.
“An African proverb states,
“Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye.”
Before you get involved and make acommitment to someone,
don’t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance,
pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs.
Keep your eyes open, and don’t fool yourself that you can change someone
or that what you see as faults aren’t really that important.
Once you decide to commit to someone, over time, their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves,
and differences will become more obvious.
If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve,
you’ve got to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.
You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths.
You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.
Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other?
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can’t take someone to the altar to alter them.
You can’t make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment,
and “a life” you won’t find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.
Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the
ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship.
Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
What keeps a relationship strong?
* communication
* intimacy
* a sense of humor
* sharing household tasks
* some getaway time without business or children
* daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note)
* sharing common goals and interests
* giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure
* giving each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode
as resentment,withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty and pain replace the passion.
“As long as we have memories, yesterday remains.
As long as we have hope,tomorrow awaits.
As long as we have friendship, today is beautiful.”
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in
a relationship and find out that you still care for that person.

Subject: If You Are MARRIED =:}

Love is not about “it’s your fault”, but “I’m sorry”, not “where are
you’ but “I’m right here”, not “how could you” but “I understand”, not “I
wish you were”, but “I’m thankful you are.”

ENGAGED =:]
The True measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but
how good you are for each other.

NOT-SO-SINGLE :)
Those who have “special someones”)
Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s “perfect person.” It’s about
finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

HEARTBROKEN :|
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to
go.
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

NAIVE :}
How to be in love: Fall but don’t stumble, be consistent but not too
persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to
demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

POSSESSIVE =:|
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else
but it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

AFRAID TO CONFESS =:<
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when
someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love
has no idea how you feel.

STILL HOLDING ON :|
A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to
you, only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and we just
have to let go.

SINGLE =:)
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes
you.
But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it.
Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love’s only special
when you give it to whom it’s worth.
So take your time and choose the best. : )
dont be hurry to achieve something…if not later u will have to be
worry…becox of the hurrieness….

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